[Java] Flaky test `ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.testPreparedStatementExecutionOnce` in JDBC Flight SQL driver

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

https://github.com/apache/arrow/actions/runs/4527686135/jobs/7973768071?pr=34678

```
Error: org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc.ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.testPreparedStatementExecutionOnce Time elapsed: 0.005 s <<< FAILURE!
org.opentest4j.AssertionFailedError: expected: <0> but was: <1>
at org.junit.jupiter.api.AssertionFailureBuilder.build(AssertionFailureBuilder.java:151)
at org.junit.jupiter.api.AssertionFailureBuilder.buildAndThrow(AssertionFailureBuilder.java:132)
at org.junit.jupiter.api.AssertEquals.failNotEqual(AssertEquals.java:197)
at org.junit.jupiter.api.AssertEquals.assertEquals(AssertEquals.java:150)
at org.junit.jupiter.api.AssertEquals.assertEquals(AssertEquals.java:145)
at org.junit.jupiter.api.Assertions.assertEquals(Assertions.java:527)
at org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc.ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.testPreparedStatementExecutionOnce(ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.java:79)
at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Native Method)
at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:62)
at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43)
at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:566)
at org.junit.runners.model.FrameworkMethod$1.runReflectiveCall(FrameworkMethod.java:59)
at org.junit.internal.runners.model.ReflectiveCallable.run(ReflectiveCallable.java:12)
at org.junit.runners.model.FrameworkMethod.invokeExplosively(FrameworkMethod.java:56)
at org.junit.internal.runners.statements.InvokeMethod.evaluate(InvokeMethod.java:17)
at org.junit.internal.runners.statements.RunBefores.evaluate(RunBefores.java:26)
at org.junit.rules.Verifier$1.evaluate(Verifier.java:35)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner$3.evaluate(ParentRunner.java:306)
at org.junit.runners.BlockJUnit4ClassRunner$1.evaluate(BlockJUnit4ClassRunner.java:100)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner.runLeaf(ParentRunner.java:366)
at org.junit.runners.BlockJUnit4ClassRunner.runChild(BlockJUnit4ClassRunner.java:103)
at org.junit.runners.BlockJUnit4ClassRunner.runChild(BlockJUnit4ClassRunner.java:63)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner$4.run(ParentRunner.java:331)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner$1.schedule(ParentRunner.java:79)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner.runChildren(ParentRunner.java:329)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner.access$100(ParentRunner.java:66)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner$2.evaluate(ParentRunner.java:293)
at org.junit.internal.runners.statements.RunBefores.evaluate(RunBefores.java:26)
at org.junit.internal.runners.statements.RunAfters.evaluate(RunAfters.java:27)
at org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc.FlightServerTestRule$1.evaluate(FlightServerTestRule.java:156)
at org.junit.rules.RunRules.evaluate(RunRules.java:20)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner$3.evaluate(ParentRunner.java:306)
at org.junit.runners.ParentRunner.run(ParentRunner.java:413)
at org.junit.runner.JUnitCore.run(JUnitCore.java:137)
at org.junit.runner.JUnitCore.run(JUnitCore.java:115)
at org.junit.vintage.engine.execution.RunnerExecutor.execute(RunnerExecutor.java:42)
at org.junit.vintage.engine.VintageTestEngine.executeAllChildren(VintageTestEngine.java:80)
at org.junit.vintage.engine.VintageTestEngine.execute(VintageTestEngine.java:72)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.execute(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:147)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.execute(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:127)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.execute(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:90)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.lambda$execute$0(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:55)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.withInterceptedStreams(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:102)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.EngineExecutionOrchestrator.execute(EngineExecutionOrchestrator.java:54)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.DefaultLauncher.execute(DefaultLauncher.java:114)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.DefaultLauncher.execute(DefaultLauncher.java:86)
at org.junit.platform.launcher.core.DefaultLauncherSession$DelegatingLauncher.execute(DefaultLauncherSession.java:86)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.junitplatform.LazyLauncher.execute(LazyLauncher.java:55)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.junitplatform.JUnitPlatformProvider.lambda$execute$1(JUnitPlatformProvider.java:234)
at java.base/java.util.Iterator.forEachRemaining(Iterator.java:133)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.junitplatform.JUnitPlatformProvider.execute(JUnitPlatformProvider.java:228)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.junitplatform.JUnitPlatformProvider.invokeAllTests(JUnitPlatformProvider.java:175)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.junitplatform.JUnitPlatformProvider.invoke(JUnitPlatformProvider.java:131)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.ForkedBooter.runSuitesInProcess(ForkedBooter.java:456)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.ForkedBooter.execute(ForkedBooter.java:169)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.ForkedBooter.run(ForkedBooter.java:595)
at org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.ForkedBooter.main(ForkedBooter.java:581)
```

### Component(s)

Java

Comece com ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.testPreparedStatementExecutionOnce na linha 79 e inspecione a configuração circundante de FlightServerTestRule, incluindo a linha 156 do stack trace. Reproduza o teste direcionado e determine por que a asserção às vezes observa 1 em vez de 0; considera-se concluído quando o teste passa de forma confiável sem mascarar a falha.

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