[Java] Flaky tests meta-issue

### Describe the enhancement requested

- [ ] https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/issues/384
- [ ] https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/issues/236
- [ ] https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/issues/235
- [ ] https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/issues/210
- [x] https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/35932

### Component(s)

Java

Start by reviewing the linked Arrow Java issues 384, 236, 235, and 210, and compare them with the checked issue 35932 in Apache Arrow. Determine which flaky-test reports remain unresolved and what each issue requires. Done means the remaining items are addressed and this checklist can be updated.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.