bug(mat-button): mat-button should be changed to disabled appearance when the parent `<fieldset>` is disabled

### Is this a regression?

- [ ] Yes, this behavior used to work in the previous version

### The previous version in which this bug was not present was

_No response_

### Description

The same issue #3033 was closed by angular/angular#35309. But it only fixes form controls not buttons.

The CSS selector for disabled appearance only selects `[disabled]` but it should also select `:disabled` to make the parent `` work.

### Reproduction

StackBlitz link: https://stackblitz.com/edit/components-issue-starter-ck6fmjkd
Steps to reproduce:
1. Put both `mat-button` and **disabled**-`mat-button` in ``.

### Expected Behavior

Both `mat-button` should show the same appearance.

### Actual Behavior

They are different.

### Environment

- Angular: 20.0.6
- CDK/Material: 20.0.5
- Browser(s): Google Chrome
- Operating System (e.g. Windows, macOS, Ubuntu): Windows

Comienza con los estilos de apariencia deshabilitada de mat-button y el selector CSS que actualmente solo comprueba [disabled]. Reproduce el problema usando el StackBlitz enlazado con botones dentro de ; se considera terminado cuando ambos botones tienen la misma apariencia deshabilitada, incluido el caso del botón deshabilitado explícitamente.

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