feat(COMPONENT): add "disabledInteractive" input to "mat-menu-item"

### Feature Description

I want allow to set `disabledInteractive` to `button[mat-menu-item]` and `a[mat-menu-item]`.
Now `disabledInteractive` is available in `mat-button`, `mat-checkbox` , etc. It is used to make the appearance disabled but still allow tooltips etc. to be available.

### Use Case

I sometimes use menus when there is not enough space to display buttons. It is inconvenient that mat-menu-item can't do what mat-button can do.

从 mat-menu-item 的实现开始，比较 mat-button 和相关组件如何处理 disabledInteractive。跟踪 button[mat-menu-item] 和 a[mat-menu-item] 入口点，然后检查或添加涵盖新 input 及其 tooltip 行为的 menu-item 测试。两种 menu-item 形式都支持所请求的 disabledInteractive 行为后，即表示完成。

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