bug(mat-selection-list): mat-list-option deselecting itself when recreated in virtual-scroll-viewport

### Is this a regression?

- [ ] Yes, this behavior used to work in the previous version

### The previous version in which this bug was not present was

_No response_

### Description

I have a wrapper component for the `mat-selection-list` to support generic filtering. Also I have a master checkbox to select everything in the current filter scope. To support large datasets I also have an option for `virtual scrolling`.

Since I allow filtering, the source set of the list is constantly changing which clears the selection if an option is filtered out. To prevent this, I use the angular `SelectionModel` and the callbacks of the mat-list-options. But here is the problem:

Since the options are destroyed and recreated while scrolling through the viewport, the `selectedChange` event of the option is triggered with the initial unselected state of an option, so an option deselects itself when being recreated. But since this does not happen all the time, it seems there is a race between `(selectedChange)` and `[selected]`.

### Reproduction

StackBlitz link: https://stackblitz.com/edit/stackblitz-starters-iidbcx
Steps to reproduce:
1. Trigger the master check-box
2. scroll
3. see the master changes to indeterminate since check-boxes deselect themself

### Expected Behavior

I would expect that the inital `selected = false` when creating the component is not emitted as an event

### Actual Behavior

Inital `selected = false` when creating the component is emitted as an event and selected itself. But not always --> race

### Environment

Angular CLI: 18.0.7
Node: 18.20.3
Package Manager: npm 10.2.3
OS: linux x64

Angular: 18.0.6
... animations, cdk, cdk-experimental, common, compiler
... compiler-cli, core, forms, material, platform-browser
... platform-browser-dynamic, router

Package Version
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@angular-devkit/architect 0.1800.7
@angular-devkit/build-angular 18.0.7
@angular-devkit/core 18.0.7
@angular-devkit/schematics 18.0.7
@angular/cli 18.0.7
@schematics/angular 18.0.7
rxjs 7.8.1
typescript 5.4.5
zone.js 0.14.7

Inizia con la riproduzione su StackBlitz ed esamina l’interazione tra mat-selection-list, mat-list-option e virtual-scroll-viewport durante lo scorrimento dopo aver selezionato tutti gli elementi. Verifica che la ricreazione di un’opzione non emetta un evento selectedChange iniziale con false e che la selezione principale rimanga stabile dopo il filtraggio e lo scorrimento.

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