feat(virtual-scroll): Allow non fixed-sized containers

#### Feature Description
When using virtual scroll the element needs to have a set height, or else, by default it'll be 0. It would be really useful for it to be able to have an automatic height.

#### Use Case
For example, i've got a page with aprox. 37 accordions, each with something between 5 and 15 mat-buttons inside each. When opening one, the opening animation is choppy because of how many are rendered on screen (this bug has already been reported in #8287).
I think this can be mitigated in this use case by only rendering what's visible with a virtual-scroll, but, because the height is dynamic(as, when an accordion needs to open, the size of the containing element changes), i cant give it a specific height, thus i can' use

Commencez par examiner le comportement de cdk-virtual-scroll-viewport décrit dans l’issue et le contexte de performance associé dans #8287. Déterminez comment un viewport sans hauteur fixe devrait réagir lorsque le contenu d’un accordéon s’agrandit ; le travail est considéré comme terminé lorsque les conteneurs à hauteur dynamique peuvent utiliser Virtual Scrolling sans animations d’ouverture saccadées.

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