mat-table laggy behavior with large number of elements

#### Bug, feature request, or proposal:
The mat-table component with selection suffers in performance when the number of elements gets decently large. Selecting a single row or the select all buttons shows a lot of lag that increases as the number of columns increases.

#### What is the expected behavior?
mat-table should be able to support good performance for large number of rows.

#### What is the current behavior?
Slow, laggy animations from clicking on single row checkbox or checkbox for select all

#### What are the steps to reproduce?
Providing a StackBlitz reproduction is the *best* way to share your issue.

https://stackblitz.com/edit/angular-vyv97t
Update table with 100 rows, click a few checkboxes.
Update table with 1,000 rows, click a few checkboxes.
Update table with 10,000 rows, click a few checkboxes.

The performance gets significantly worse.

#### What is the use-case or motivation for changing an existing behavior?
Creating a table which contains lot of entries from the some backend API service. The user should be able to experience smooth UI and user experience.

#### Which versions of Angular, Material, OS, TypeScript, browsers are affected?
Angular 6, Material 6.4.7, Chrome

#### Is there anything else we should know?

Inizia con la riproduzione StackBlitz collegata e confronta le interazioni con le caselle di controllo per 100, 1.000 e 10.000 righe, variando il numero di colonne. Esegui il profiling del comportamento di selezione di mat-table per identificare la causa del rallentamento. Il lavoro è completato quando la selezione di singole righe e di tutte le righe rimane reattiva per le tabelle di grandi dimensioni.

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