protobuf-3.25.3 with abseil-20240116.2 crash

### Describe the issue

Hi team,

After we upgraded to protobuf-3.25.3, it always crashes in abseil code. Could you help check?
we dlopen two dynamic libraries(libView-TsdrClient.dylib, libView-ScannerRedirClient.dylib) in different threads. However, it always jump in dead lock and then crash.

If it is not a bug, could you give us some suggestions?
Also, Could you tell what's this used for since I can not find where is is invoked? _**absl::lts_20240116::flags_internal::FlagRegistrar, std::__1::allocator>, true>::OnUpdate(void (*)()) && + 36 (flag.h:779)**_

Thanks very much.

`Crashed Thread: 0

Exception Type: EXC_CRASH (SIGABRT)
Exception Codes: 0x0000000000000000, 0x0000000000000000

Termination Reason: Namespace SIGNAL, Code 6 Abort trap: 6
Terminating Process: remotemks [48793]

Application Specific Information:
*** multi-threaded process forked ***
crashed on child side of fork pre-exec

Thread 0 Crashed:
0 libsystem_kernel.dylib 0x7ff80cd2114a __pthread_kill + 10
1 libsystem_pthread.dylib 0x7ff80cd59ebd pthread_kill + 262
2 libbase.dylib 0x110e7a3fa SigCoreDumpViaChild + 730 (sigPosix.c:2246)
3 libbase.dylib 0x110e7a6fb Sig_CoreDump + 11 (sigPosix.c:2337)
4 libbase.dylib 0x110da6094 Panic_Panic + 212 (panic.c:534)
5 libbase.dylib 0x110da6212 Panic + 130 (panicDefault.c:43)
6 libbase.dylib 0x110e7afb9 SigNoHandler + 569
7 libbase.dylib 0x110e7abb0 SigCatcherCommon + 320 (sigPosix.c:813)
8 libsystem_platform.dylib 0x7ff80cd88fdd _sigtramp + 29
9 ??? 0x1154720a8 ???
10 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x11901f8e8 absl::lts_20240116::synchronization_internal::GraphCycles::Ptr(absl::lts_20240116::synchronization_internal::GraphId) + 40 (graphcycles.cc:467)
11 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118ffc459 absl::lts_20240116::DeadlockCheck(absl::lts_20240116::Mutex*) + 265 (mutex.cc:1404)
12 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118ff760f absl::lts_20240116::DebugOnlyDeadlockCheck(absl::lts_20240116::Mutex*) + 47 (mutex.cc:1469)
13 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118ff7539 absl::lts_20240116::Mutex::Lock() + 25 (mutex.cc:1526)
14 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118ce9b53 absl::lts_20240116::MutexLock::MutexLock(absl::lts_20240116::Mutex*) + 35 (mutex.h:584)
15 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118ce997d absl::lts_20240116::MutexLock::MutexLock(absl::lts_20240116::Mutex*) + 29 (mutex.h:583)
16 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118fd8116 absl::lts_20240116::log_internal::UpdateVLogSites() + 70 (vlog_config.cc:262)
17 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118fd881d absl::lts_20240116::log_internal::UpdateVModule(std::__1::basic_string_view>) + 829 (vlog_config.cc:302)
18 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118f5ab4e $_5::operator()() const + 62 (flags.cc:142)
19 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118f5ab01 $_5::__invoke() + 17 (flags.cc:141)
20 libView-ScannerRedirClient.dylib 0x11ab0b444 absl::lts_20240116::flags_internal::FlagImpl::InvokeCallback() const + 100 (flag.cc:348)
21 libView-ScannerRedirClient.dylib 0x11ab0bd99 absl::lts_20240116::flags_internal::FlagImpl::SetCallback(void (*)()) + 169 (flag.cc:325)
22 libView-ScannerRedirClient.dylib 0x11aa80904 absl::lts_20240116::flags_internal::FlagRegistrar, std::__1::allocator>, true>::OnUpdate(void (*)()) && + 36 (flag.h:779)
23 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118f5b304 __cxx_global_var_init.12 + 52
24 libView-TsdrClient.dylib 0x118f5b347 _GLOBAL__sub_I_flags.cc + 39
25 dyld 0x7ff80c9e539f invocation function for block in dyld4::Loader::findAndRunAllInitializers(dyld4::RuntimeState&) const::$_0::operator()() const + 185
26 dyld 0x7ff80ca1f663 invocation function for block in dyld3::MachOAnalyzer::forEachInitializer(Diagnostics&, dyld3::MachOAnalyzer::VMAddrConverter const&, void (unsigned int) block_pointer, void const*) const + 241
27 dyld 0x7ff80ca13bcf invocation function for block in dyld3::MachOFile::forEachSection(void (dyld3::MachOFile::SectionInfo const&, bool, bool&) block_pointer) const + 543
28 dyld 0x7ff80c9ca07f dyld3::MachOFile::forEachLoadCommand(Diagnostics&, void (load_command const*, bool&) block_pointer) const + 249
29 dyld 0x7ff80ca12d0c dyld3::MachOFile::forEachSection(void (dyld3::MachOFile::SectionInfo const&, bool, bool&) block_pointer) const + 176
30 dyld 0x7ff80ca1f24e dyld3::MachOAnalyzer::forEachInitializer(Diagnostics&, dyld3::MachOAnalyzer::VMAddrConverter const&, void (unsigned int) block_pointer, void const*) const + 470
31 dyld 0x7ff80c9e20cd dyld4::Loader::findAndRunAllInitializers(dyld4::RuntimeState&) const + 225
32 dyld 0x7ff80c9e79c9 dyld4::JustInTimeLoader::runInitializers(dyld4::RuntimeState&) const + 21
33 dyld 0x7ff80c9e22e5 dyld4::Loader::runInitializersBottomUp(dyld4::RuntimeState&, dyld3::Array&) const + 213
34 dyld 0x7ff80c9e5414 dyld4::Loader::runInitializersBottomUpPlusUpwardLinks(dyld4::RuntimeState&) const::$_1::operator()() const + 98
35 dyld 0x7ff80c9e237e dyld4::Loader::runInitializersBottomUpPlusUpwardLinks(dyld4::RuntimeState&) const + 96
36 dyld 0x7ff80c9fceb3 dyld4::APIs::dlopen_from(char const*, int, void*) + 1083
37 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114e0670c PluginMgr::DoLoadPluginClass(PropertyManager const&, char const*, _VDPService_SessionType) + 924 (linuxPluginMgr.cpp:478)
38 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114e06df0 PluginMgr::DoLoadPluginClasses(PropertyManager const&, std::__1::basic_string, std::__1::allocator> const&, _VDPService_SessionType) + 736 (linuxPluginMgr.cpp:435)
39 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114e05cb6 PluginMgr::LoadPluginClasses(PropertyManager const&, _VDPService_SessionType) + 758 (linuxPluginMgr.cpp:192)
40 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114dd935e PluginMgr::StartPluginMgr(PropertyManager const&, _VDPService_SessionType, PCoIPVChanAPI*, PCoIPVChanAPI*) + 670 (pluginMgr.cpp:216)
41 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114de5e1b ParseArgsAndStartPlugMgr(char const*, _VDPService_SessionType, PCoIPVChanAPI*, PCoIPVChanAPI*) + 267 (rpcClient.cpp:364)
42 libvdpservice.dylib 0x114de6178 VVC_Start + 712 (rpcClient.cpp:499)
43 libbase.dylib 0x110f57c9b PluginStartThreadFunc + 59 (pluginLoaderHelper.c:263)
44 libbase.dylib 0x110ee3a70 VThreadThreadWrapper + 176 (vthreadPosix.c:406)
45 libsystem_pthread.dylib 0x7ff80cd5a18b _pthread_start + 99
46 libsystem_pthread.dylib 0x7ff80cd55ae3 thread_start + 15`

### Steps to reproduce the problem

can not reproduce in sample code

### What version of Abseil are you using?

20240116.2

### What operating system and version are you using?

MacOS 14.2

### What compiler and version are you using?

clang-15
macos-xcode15.2

### What build system are you using?

MacOS

### Additional context

_No response_