Connection refused while resolving; resolver: 127.0.0.11:53

### Description

Basic, basic nginx running in a docker container, DNS resolution does not work.

### Version

tried 0.5.6 and 0.6.7 and some version in between that I no longer recall.

### Operating System

- [ ] macOS Intel <= 13 (Ventura)
- [X] macOS Intel >= 14 (Sonoma)
- [ ] Apple Silicon <= 13 (Ventura)
- [ ] Apple Silicon >= 14 (Sonoma)
- [ ] Linux

### Output of `colima status`

INFO[0000] colima is running using QEMU
INFO[0000] arch: x86_64
INFO[0000] runtime: docker
INFO[0000] mountType: sshfs
INFO[0000] socket: unix:///Users/jason.marshall/.colima/default/docker.sock

### Reproduction Steps

Run nginx, set any upstream in the config,

resolver 127.0.0.11 valid=30s ipv6=off;

### Expected behaviour

No warnings in the nginx logs

### Additional context

ipv6=off came from a comment on another ticket, but that does not work here.

Also downgrading was suggested, same problem (and brew makes this a titanic pita now, not something I'm going to describe to my coworkers)