updated from 0.2.90 to 0.3.2 and now my GPU won't load

I've looked through the issues, I do see there are some complaints about this, a lot of different ways to fix it working differently for different users.

Is there a unified, accepted and tested way that can readjust my set up to work with GPUs?

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