Proposal: in-place desktop auto-update (cached zip + Restart-now, t3code-style)

## What problem would this solve?

The desktop app's current auto-update leaves a new zip/duplicate bundle and doesn't reliably replace the running app in its existing location. Users on macOS (`/Applications`) and Windows (`Program Files`) see extra artifacts, manual steps, and confusing restart. Inspired by https://github.com/pingdotgg/t3code, we want a restart-and-replace flow that overwrites the same `.app`/install dir and relaunches.

Affects all desktop users on macOS + Windows (Linux deb/rpm/flatpak delegated to package manager).

## What would a good outcome look like?

- "Check for updates" downloads once to `userData/update-cache/.zip` (pruned to last 2 for rollback), extracts to `os.tmpdir()`, then swaps in-place over the existing install and relaunches the same `Goose.app`/`Goose.exe` path.
- No zip/duplicate left in `~/Downloads` or install parent after update; cache holds <=2 zips.
- Update shows a **"Restart now" Notification** (user-confirmed) on `update-downloaded` for both `electron-updater` and GitHub-fallback paths -- click triggers the swap + `app.quit()`/`quitAndInstall`.
- If the install location is not writable, fail gracefully with a permission Notification ("move to /Applications or check write permission") -- no UAC/osascript elevation in v1.
- `codesign --verify --deep` logged on macOS (non-blocking) to preserve Gatekeeper.
- Existing `autoUpdater` events (`checking-for-update`, `update-available`, `download-progress`, `update-downloaded`, `error`) still fire.

## Possible approaches

**Source:** `docs/brainstorms/2026-09-02-desktop-autoupdate-inplace-restart.md` + `docs/plans/2026-09-02-desktop-autoupdate-inplace-restart.md` (Approach A -- minimal, t3code-inspired)

- **Approach A (recommended, S effort):** Keep `electron-updater` as primary (`quitAndInstall(false,true)` already does Squirrel in-place). Make `githubUpdater.ts` the canonical zip-free path: `ensureCacheDir()`/`pruneCache()`/`isTargetWritable()`, `ditto -x -k` (macOS) / `Expand-Archive` (Windows), swap via detached script + `app.relaunch`, keep zip cached. ~120 lines in 2 files.
- **Approach B:** Vendor t3code's helper verbatim (`rsync`/`ditto` detached script) -- more faithful but `rsync` doesn't preserve xattrs/signing, larger surface.
- **Approach C:** Go full `electron-updater` differential and drop GitHub fallback -- cleanest long-term but loses fallback.

Implementation touches `ui/desktop/src/utils/githubUpdater.ts` and `ui/desktop/src/utils/autoUpdater.ts` only (Forge and `main.ts` unchanged).

## Additional context

- Decision log: macOS + Windows in scope, Restart-now UX, keep cached zip for rollback, graceful-fail permissions.
- **Minimal PR (code-only, 2 files, 122 lines):** https://github.com/aaif-goose/goose/pull/11777 -- implements Approach A, rebased on `main` @ f9176266e, `npx tsc --noEmit` OK
- **Full PR with docs (4 files, 240 lines):** https://github.com/aaif-goose/goose/pull/11775
- Plan written: `docs/plans/2026-09-02-desktop-autoupdate-inplace-restart.md` (and brainstorm `docs/brainstorms/2026-09-02-desktop-autoupdate-inplace-restart.md`)
- Verification: `npx tsc --noEmit` OK, `cargo fmt`/`clippy` OK; manual smoke needed (install vN -> vN+1 -> Restart now -> version bump).

Do not begin implementation until the issue reaches Ready on the Goose Issues board (https://github.com/orgs/aaif-goose/projects/1).

Closes via PRs above once Ready.

The work is in `ui/desktop/src/utils/githubUpdater.ts` and `ui/desktop/src/utils/autoUpdater.ts`. Read the linked PR #11777 for the 122-line implementation. Understand the existing `electron-updater` events and the GitHub fallback path. Test the swap logic on macOS and Windows, ensuring the cached zip in `userData/update-cache/` is pruned and the restart notification works. Verify with `npx tsc --noEmit` and manual smoke tests from one version to the next.

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