asyncpg does not work with "sslmode" query param when called from SQLAlchemy

还没有人认领这个 Issue。

* **asyncpg version**: 0.22
* **PostgreSQL version**: 12.3
* **Do you use a PostgreSQL SaaS? If so, which? Can you reproduce
the issue with a local PostgreSQL install?**: I use DigitalOcean and was able to also reproduce it locally
* **Python version**: 3.8.9
* **Platform**: Linux
* **Do you use pgbouncer?**: No
* **Did you install asyncpg with pip?**: Yes
* **If you built asyncpg locally, which version of Cython did you use?**: -
* **Can the issue be reproduced under both asyncio and
[uvloop](https://github.com/magicstack/uvloop)?**: N/D

First, congratulation to the people of MagicStack for this great library.

When using DigitalOcean default environment DATABASE URL to set the database string on my app I got the following error:
```
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 599, in __connect
connection = pool._invoke_creator(self)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/create.py", line 578, in connect
return dialect.connect(*cargs, **cparams)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/default.py", line 558, in connect
return self.dbapi.connect(*cargs, **cparams)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/site-packages/sqlalchemy/dialects/postgresql/asyncpg.py", line 747, in connect
await_only(self.asyncpg.connect(*arg, **kw)),
TypeError: connect() got an unexpected keyword argument 'sslmode'
```

In my app, since I use `psycopg2` to do some "management tasks", I also need to do something like that:
```
if ssl_enabled and driver == "asyncpg":
base_url += "?ssl=require"
elif ssl_enabled and driver == "psycopg2":
base_url += "?sslmode=require"
```

Shouldn't `asyncpg` use the more standard `sslmode=` query param instead of the `ssl=`?

从回溯中显示的 SQLAlchemy PostgreSQL asyncpg 方言路径开始，尤其是 sqlalchemy/dialects/postgresql/asyncpg.py，并跟踪 URL 查询参数如何传递到 asyncpg.connect。使用 sslmode=require 重现失败，并将其与 ssl=require 进行比较。当预期的参数能够通过 SQLAlchemy 正常工作且不再出现 unexpected-keyword 错误，并且为连接 URL 情况提供 coverage 时，即视为完成。

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