.pgpass file support handles backslash escapes incorrectly; should de-escape values

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https://www.postgresql.org/docs/current/libpq-pgpass.html isn't fully explicit about how to handle backslash escapes in the `.pgpass` file, however it's reasonably clear from the phrasing that backslashes serve only to escape backslashes and colons and therefore aren't considered part of the value they're used in. E.g., a `.pgpass` row of …

```
*:*:test\:db:test\\:password from pgpass with escapes
```

conveys:

- a database name of `test:db`, not `test\:db`
- a user name of `test\`, not `test\\`

I ran into this problem because I have a password of `4:K1…`, encoded as `4\:K1…`, and it works with `psql` but not `asyncpg`. Once I remove the backslash from `.pgpass`, it starts working with `asyncpg` but failing with `psql`.

I would've provided a failing test and even a code change, but I can't get `python setup.py test` or `pip install -e .[test]` to work in a run-of-the-mill Python 3.12 virtualenv on my run-of-the-mill MacOS.

首先解决针对 `python setup.py test` 或 `pip install -e .[test]` 报告的 Python 3.12 测试设置问题，然后定位 asyncpg 对 `.pgpass` 的处理。为转义的冒号和反斜杠添加覆盖测试，并在这些值能够与 `psql` 一致地取消转义时，认为该 issue 已完成。

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