Pattern idea: Great first impressions

In InnerSource much like in open source, the very first interaction between a contributor and the maintainer of a project sets the tone for the rest of the interaction.

That first impression can

1. turn a first-time contributor into a raving fan of the project, leading to more future contributions
2. or scare of that user, maybe even prevent a first-time contribution that otherwise would have been possible

The importance of the first impression goes both ways though!

e.g. a user that starts the conversation with "we should really fix this stupid bug" may create some negative vibes in the conversation that are frustrating for the maintainer to deal with.

While overall project appearance and documentation also contribute to the first impression, in this pattern idea I want to focus on the elements of human interaction that make a great and not-so-great first impression. We could say "be nice" but does that really cut it?

As an experiment I will move the conversation about this into a discussion, so let's explore there together if this could be a pattern:
https://github.com/InnerSourceCommons/InnerSourcePatterns/discussions/443

从 github.com/InnerSourceCommons/InnerSourcePatterns/discussions/443 链接的讨论开始，这段对话已被移至该处。结合阅读 issue 和讨论，以确定这个想法是否应成为一个有文档记录的 pattern，以及哪些标准可以定义一个完成的结果；issue 未指明任何文件或测试。