Very high memory usage when running under sudo in Linux

Hi all,

It seems that creating and initializing an IOC takes up a crazy high amount of memory when ran under sudo. This is not the case when ran as user. Here is a minimal example to demonstrate:

```python
import psutil
from softioc import softioc, builder, asyncio_dispatcher

def print_memory_usage(loc: str):
print(f"{loc:32s}: {psutil.Process().memory_info().rss:,}")

print_memory_usage("Before PV")
pv = builder.longOut("myVariable")

print_memory_usage("Before loadDatabase")
builder.LoadDatabase()

print_memory_usage("Before dispatcher")
dispatcher = asyncio_dispatcher.AsyncioDispatcher()
print_memory_usage("Before iocInit")
softioc.iocInit(dispatcher)

print_memory_usage("Before start")
softioc.interactive_ioc()
```

Output when ran as user:
```
INFO: PVXS QSRV2 is loaded, permitted, and ENABLED.
2025-01-16T13:55:56.327190606 WARN pvxs.tcp.setup Server unable to bind port 5075, falling back to [::]:37275
Before PV : 85,139,456
Before loadDatabase : 85,139,456
Before dispatcher : 85,139,456
Before iocInit : 87,236,608
Starting iocInit
############################################################################
## EPICS 7.0.7.1-DEV
## Rev. 7.0.7.99.1.1
## Rev. Date 7.0.7.99.1.1
############################################################################
cas WARNING: Configured TCP port was unavailable.
cas WARNING: Using dynamically assigned TCP port 43649,
cas WARNING: but now two or more servers share the same UDP port.
cas WARNING: Depending on your IP kernel this server may not be
cas WARNING: reachable with UDP unicast (a host's IP in EPICS_CA_ADDR_LIST)
iocRun: All initialization complete
Before start : 89,600,000
Python 3.12.3 (main, Nov 6 2024, 18:32:19) [GCC 13.2.0] on linux
Type "help", "copyright", "credits" or "license" for more information.
(InteractiveConsole)
>>>
```

Output when ran as sudo:
```
INFO: PVXS QSRV2 is loaded, permitted, and ENABLED.
2025-01-16T13:56:32.146488207 WARN pvxs.tcp.setup Server unable to bind port 5075, falling back to [::]:39775
Before PV : 85,114,880
Before loadDatabase : 85,114,880
Before dispatcher : 85,114,880
Before iocInit : 87,212,032
Starting iocInit
############################################################################
## EPICS 7.0.7.1-DEV
## Rev. 7.0.7.99.1.1
## Rev. Date 7.0.7.99.1.1
############################################################################
cas WARNING: Configured TCP port was unavailable.
cas WARNING: Using dynamically assigned TCP port 37929,
cas WARNING: but now two or more servers share the same UDP port.
cas WARNING: Depending on your IP kernel this server may not be
cas WARNING: reachable with UDP unicast (a host's IP in EPICS_CA_ADDR_LIST)
iocRun: All initialization complete
Before start : 950,546,432
Python 3.12.3 (main, Nov 6 2024, 18:32:19) [GCC 13.2.0] on linux
Type "help", "copyright", "credits" or "license" for more information.
(InteractiveConsole)
>>>
```

As you can see, the issue seems to happen in `softioc.iocInit`. Packages used to test (on Ubuntu):
```
softioc 4.5.0
psutil 6.1.1
```

This issue occurs both on Ubuntu and NixOS.