SSH config writes are not idempotent, and tests write fixture hosts into the user's real ~/.ssh/config (164 duplicate blocks observed)

## Summary

`clustrix` appends entries to the user's **real** `~/.ssh/config` without deduplicating, and it writes **test-fixture hosts** into that personal config. On my machine this accumulated to 164 identical placeholder blocks.

## Evidence

Measured on a real user config (macOS, `~/.ssh/config`):

```
total lines: 1202
total Host entries: 172
```

Frequency by host (real hostnames redacted):

```
164 Host my_cluster <- test fixture, repeated 164x
1 Host
1 Host
1 Host test_cli
1 Host test_cleanup
1 Host
1 Host
1 Host
1 Host
```

Every duplicate block is byte-identical and self-labelled:

```
# Clustrix auto-generated entry for my_cluster
Host my_cluster
HostName cluster.example.com
User testuser
IdentityFile ~/.ssh/id_ed25519_clustrix_testuser_my_cluster
IdentitiesOnly yes
```

`cluster.example.com` / `testuser` is a **test fixture**, not a real host. After removing only the `my_cluster` blocks, the file went from **1202 lines / 172 Host entries to 52 lines / 8 Host entries**, with every genuine entry preserved.

## Two distinct bugs

1. **No deduplication on write.** Each run appends a new block for a host that already has one. Nothing detects or replaces the existing entry, so the file grows without bound across runs.
2. **Tests write to the real user config.** `my_cluster` → `cluster.example.com` / `testuser` is fixture data. A test suite should never mutate `~/.ssh/config`; it should write to a temp file and point SSH at it via `-F` / `ssh_config` path injection.

## Impact

- The user's personal SSH config becomes unmanageable (1202 lines of which ~96% is generated noise).
- Real entries get buried among fixtures, making the file hard to audit.
- Functionally the duplicates are inert — OpenSSH takes the first match for a given `Host` pattern — so this is a hygiene and trust problem rather than a broken-connection problem. But it means clustrix silently rewrites a security-relevant file in the user's home directory.

## Suggested fixes

- Make config writes **idempotent**: look for an existing block for the same `Host` alias and replace it in place, rather than appending.
- Delimit generated regions with explicit markers (e.g. `# >>> clustrix managed >>>` / `# <<< clustrix managed <<<`) so the tool can rewrite only its own section and users can see what it owns.
- Consider writing to a dedicated `~/.ssh/clustrix_config` and having users add a single `Include clustrix_config` line, so clustrix never touches the main file.
- In the test suite, redirect all SSH-config writes to a `tmp_path` fixture. No test should be able to modify `~/.ssh/config`.
- Optionally ship a `clustrix ssh-config --prune` command to clean up configs already affected.

## Environment

- clustrix installed from source (repo `master`)
- macOS, OpenSSH client

Locate the SSH-config write path and the tests that create the my_cluster fixture; first verify which tests can reach ~/.ssh/config. Done means repeated writes do not create duplicate host blocks, generated entries are safely isolated or replaceable, and tests use a temporary config while preserving real user entries.

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