More fine-grained cache controls

### Prerequisites

Please answer the following questions for yourself before submitting an issue. **YOU MAY DELETE THE PREREQUISITES SECTION.**

- [X] I am running the latest version
- [X] I checked the documentation and found no answer
- [X] I checked to make sure that this issue has not already been filed

### Issue Details

* **Version of AdGuard Home server:**
*
* **How did you install AdGuard Home:**
* Docker
* **How did you setup DNS configuration:**
* Router
* **If it's a router or IoT, please write device model:**
* Ubiquiti UniFi Dream Machine (UDM) Pro
* **CPU architecture:**
* ar64
* **Operating system and version:**
* Armbian Debian 64bit

`./AdGuardHome -v --version` output:

```txt
AdGuard Home
Version: v0.107.5
Channel: release
Go version: go1.16.15
Build time: 2022-03-04T13:00:44Z+0000
GOOS: linux
GOARCH: arm64
Race: false
Dependencies:
github.com/AdguardTeam/dnsproxy@v0.40.7-0.20220207171519-b3947de6a902 (sum: h1:6pxvSWL9tVelFo0R3t6Pn8u6YU5dCqTVehvNnP6lOqI=)
github.com/AdguardTeam/golibs@v0.10.4 (sum: h1:TMBkablZC0IZOpRgg9fzAKlxxNhSN2YJq7qbgtuZ7PQ=)
github.com/AdguardTeam/urlfilter@v0.15.2 (sum: h1:LZGgrm4l4Ys9eAqB+UUmZfiC6vHlDlYFhx0WXqo6LtQ=)
github.com/NYTimes/gziphandler@v1.1.1 (sum: h1:ZUDjpQae29j0ryrS0u/B8HZfJBtBQHjqw2rQ2cqUQ3I=)
github.com/aead/chacha20@v0.0.0-20180709150244-8b13a72661da (sum: h1:KjTM2ks9d14ZYCvmHS9iAKVt9AyzRSqNU1qabPih5BY=)
github.com/aead/poly1305@v0.0.0-20180717145839-3fee0db0b635 (sum: h1:52m0LGchQBBVqJRyYYufQuIbVqRawmubW3OFGqK1ekw=)
github.com/ameshkov/dnscrypt/v2@v2.2.3 (sum: h1:X9UP5AHtwp46Ji+sGFfF/1Is6OPI/SjxLqhKpx0P5UI=)
github.com/ameshkov/dnsstamps@v1.0.3 (sum: h1:Srzik+J9mivH1alRACTbys2xOxs0lRH9qnTA7Y1OYVo=)
github.com/beefsack/go-rate@v0.0.0-20200827232406-6cde80facd47 (sum: h1:M57m0xQqZIhx7CEJgeLSvRFKEK1RjzRuIXiA3HfYU7g=)
github.com/cheekybits/genny@v1.0.0 (sum: h1:uGGa4nei+j20rOSeDeP5Of12XVm7TGUd4dJA9RDitfE=)
github.com/digineo/go-ipset/v2@v2.2.1 (sum: h1:k6skY+0fMqeUjjeWO/m5OuWPSZUAn7AucHMnQ1MX77g=)
github.com/fsnotify/fsnotify@v1.5.1 (sum: h1:mZcQUHVQUQWoPXXtuf9yuEXKudkV2sx1E06UadKWpgI=)
github.com/go-ping/ping@v0.0.0-20210506233800-ff8be3320020 (sum: h1:mdi6AbCEoKCA1xKCmp7UtRB5fvGFlP92PvlhxgdvXEw=)
github.com/google/go-cmp@v0.5.5 (sum: h1:Khx7svrCpmxxtHBq5j2mp/xVjsi8hQMfNLvJFAlrGgU=)
github.com/google/gopacket@v1.1.19 (sum: h1:ves8RnFZPGiFnTS0uPQStjwru6uO6h+nlr9j6fL7kF8=)
github.com/google/renameio@v1.0.1 (sum: h1:Lh/jXZmvZxb0BBeSY5VKEfidcbcbenKjZFzM/q0fSeU=)
github.com/insomniacslk/dhcp@v0.0.0-20210310193751-cfd4d47082c2 (sum: h1:NpTIlXznCStsY88jU+Gh1Dy5dt/jYV4z4uU8h2TUOt4=)
github.com/josharian/native@v0.0.0-20200817173448-b6b71def0850 (sum: h1:uhL5Gw7BINiiPAo24A2sxkcDI0Jt/sqp1v5xQCniEFA=)
github.com/kardianos/service@v1.2.0 (sum: h1:bGuZ/epo3vrt8IPC7mnKQolqFeYJb7Cs8Rk4PSOBB/g=)
github.com/lucas-clemente/quic-go@v0.24.0 (sum: h1:ToR7SIIEdrgOhgVTHvPgdVRJfgVy+N0wQAagH7L4d5g=)
github.com/marten-seemann/qtls-go1-16@v0.1.4 (sum: h1:xbHbOGGhrenVtII6Co8akhLEdrawwB2iHl5yhJRpnco=)
github.com/mdlayher/ethernet@v0.0.0-20190606142754-0394541c37b7 (sum: h1:lez6TS6aAau+8wXUP3G9I3TGlmPFEq2CTxBaRqY6AGE=)
github.com/mdlayher/netlink@v1.4.0 (sum: h1:n3ARR+Fm0dDv37dj5wSWZXDKcy+U0zwcXS3zKMnSiT0=)
github.com/mdlayher/raw@v0.0.0-20210412142147-51b895745faf (sum: h1:InctQoB89TIkmgIFQeIL4KXNvWc1iebQXdZggqPSwL8=)
github.com/miekg/dns@v1.1.45 (sum: h1:g5fRIhm9nx7g8osrAvgb16QJfmyMsyOCb+J7LSv+Qzk=)
github.com/patrickmn/go-cache@v2.1.0+incompatible (sum: h1:HRMgzkcYKYpi3C8ajMPV8OFXaaRUnok+kx1WdO15EQc=)
github.com/pkg/errors@v0.9.1 (sum: h1:FEBLx1zS214owpjy7qsBeixbURkuhQAwrK5UwLGTwt4=)
github.com/satori/go.uuid@v1.2.0 (sum: h1:0uYX9dsZ2yD7q2RtLRtPSdGDWzjeM3TbMJP9utgA0ww=)
github.com/ti-mo/netfilter@v0.4.0 (sum: h1:rTN1nBYULDmMfDeBHZpKuNKX/bWEXQUhe02a/10orzg=)
github.com/u-root/u-root@v7.0.0+incompatible (sum: h1:u+KSS04pSxJGI5E7WE4Bs9+Zd75QjFv+REkjy/aoAc8=)
go.etcd.io/bbolt@v1.3.6 (sum: h1:/ecaJf0sk1l4l6V4awd65v2C3ILy7MSj+s/x1ADCIMU=)
golang.org/x/crypto@v0.0.0-20211215153901-e495a2d5b3d3 (sum: h1:0es+/5331RGQPcXlMfP+WrnIIS6dNnNRe0WB02W0F4M=)
golang.org/x/net@v0.0.0-20211216030914-fe4d6282115f (sum: h1:hEYJvxw1lSnWIl8X9ofsYMklzaDs90JI2az5YMd4fPM=)
golang.org/x/sync@v0.0.0-20210220032951-036812b2e83c (sum: h1:5KslGYwFpkhGh+Q16bwMP3cOontH8FOep7tGV86Y7SQ=)
golang.org/x/sys@v0.0.0-20211216021012-1d35b9e2eb4e (sum: h1:fLOSk5Q00efkSvAm+4xcoXD+RRmLmmulPn5I3Y9F2EM=)
golang.org/x/text@v0.3.7 (sum: h1:olpwvP2KacW1ZWvsR7uQhoyTYvKAupfQrRGBFM352Gk=)
gopkg.in/natefinch/lumberjack.v2@v2.0.0 (sum: h1:1Lc07Kr7qY4U2YPouBjpCLxpiyxIVoxqXgkXLknAOE8=)
gopkg.in/yaml.v2@v2.4.0 (sum: h1:D8xgwECY7CYvx+Y2n4sBz93Jn9JRvxdiyyo8CTfuKaY=)
howett.net/plist@v0.0.0-20201203080718-1454fab16a06 (sum: h1:QDxUo/w2COstK1wIBYpzQlHX/NqaQTcf9jyz347nI58=)
```

### Expected Behavior

When I ask AdGuard Home (ADH) for a local host, it will correctly forward that to the Upstream DNS Servers (my UDM Pro in this case)

If the host does not exist, it returns that information and caches that the host does not exist with **a low TTL**.

Next request should use the cached value, until entry expires.

### Actual Behavior

TTL for a failed resolution seems to be 3600s!

### Screenshots

Screenshot:


- on 1 you see the initial request for the non-existing local host
- on 2 and above, all logged entries show "served from cache"
- on 3 (more than 1h later!) I see a new entry with no indication of cache
- on 4 and after, all logged entries show "served from cache"

### Discussed in https://github.com/AdguardTeam/AdGuardHome/discussions/4369