remove boost and in favor of c++ std/abseil

current boost version won't compile on macOS 13, or higher gcc version. Most usage to boost can easily replaced from `std` or `absl`, its generally preferred to rm it.

Or if there is the case a lower gcc required, like centos 6 ?, use C macros to wrapper those functionality ? Anyway if centos 6 is able to compile gcc 8, macros are not necessary