feat: refactor index option and move index option validation code to `SqlClusterRouter`

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Index key, ttl, ttl_type verify logic should be placed in `DB` or in `CORE`

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1. Refeactor ColumnIndexNode. We only keep general structure.
2. Move `ttl`, `ttl_type`, `verson` logic to `OPENMLDB`
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