Is custom message passing possible?

I'm double checking. I see this https://github.com/widgetti/ipyreact?tab=readme-ov-file#events

and this bit from anywidget
https://anywidget.dev/en/jupyter-widgets-the-good-parts/#2-custom-messages

Are the two equivalent?

My widget overwhelmingly fits into the react/reactive model. I will be implementing lazy loading of data from python based on scrolling. I currently have that working via a convoluted react pattern where I memoize a cache, set args that are responded to in a later update of the element props. Then the cache is polled by the original scroll request. This is a mess obviously, and latent.

If I had access to the backbone model from the _esm exported function, I could implement what I'm thinking of.

So two questions:

1. will your implementation of events accomodate this in the same way that anywidget does?
2. what would you think of a "secret" extra prop of _model that allows these perversions of the react model?

Start by comparing the ipyreact events documentation linked in the issue with anywidget’s custom-messages documentation. Determine whether the two mechanisms are equivalent and whether exposing a _model prop would support the proposed lazy-loading flow; done requires a maintainer decision on the API and implementation scope.