Abbreviate long values in `toBeOneOf` failure messages

Clear and concise description of the problem

In PR 8906 I added support for sets to toBeOneOf. If there is a test failure it prints the entire set or array in the console. Which is fine for short sets/arrays but in our case this makes the test results unreadable.

Suggested solution

I suggest to implement a limit for the number of elements that will be printed so it maybe looks something like this:

Set {
  "value1",
  "value2",
  … 420 more items
}

Alternative

The question is whether to implement this just for toBeOneOf or "fix" printExpected and printReceived in general.

Additional context

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Start at the toBeOneOf failure-message handling and inspect the printExpected and printReceived paths mentioned in the issue. Reproduce a failure with a long Set or array, then verify that output is abbreviated with a count of omitted items while short collections remain readable.