Cannot load 3rd party kexts

**Describe the issue**
3rd party kexts, like macFUSE or the kext I am working on personally, won't load. After reboot I get a pop-up message that says "System Extension Error", "An error occurred with your system extensions during startup and they need to be rebuilt before they can be used. Please go to Security & Privacy System Preferences to re-enable them."

If I go to Preferences and do as it asks, after reboot the same message appears.

SIP is disabled, developer mode is on, etc.

The same kexts work fine on bare metal.

**Configuration**
* UTM Version: 3.2.3 (57)
* Host OS Version: macOS 12.3.1
* Intel or Apple Silicon? Apple M1 Max

**Logs**
Output of `log show --debug | grep -i macfuse`:

```
2022-05-16 10:36:20.878345-0700 0x263 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: validating extension at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:20.889780-0700 0x263 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:20.889807-0700 0x263 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking unstaged bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:20.961129-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] canLoadKernelExtension - direct, evaluate, Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:36:20.962087-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Kernel Extension ALLOWED: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext (new)
/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:21.282160-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] canLoadKernelExtension - direct, evaluate, Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:36:21.282557-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Kernel Extension ALLOWED: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:36:21.282857-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Triggered kext upgrade: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:36:21.282978-0700 0x54c Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Blocking upgrade dialog for kext that is already pending upgrade: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:36:22.559237-0700 0x2e5 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: validating extension at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:22.560082-0700 0x2e5 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:36:22.560102-0700 0x2e5 Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking unstaged bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.432792-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] loadExtensions(withPaths:withIdentifiers:withPersonalityNames:withDependencyAndFolderPaths:options:withReply:): Loading paths: ["/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext"], identifiers: [], personalityNames: []
2022-05-16 10:42:44.493065-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: validating extension at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.493840-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.493858-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] checking unstaged bundle path /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext for Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.509628-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: validating extension at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.510237-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: [com.apple.kernelmanagerd.logging:LoadRequestResolution] At least one of the request extensions / bundled extensions io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse are NOT in the exclude list. Will do full resolution of load request
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.520349-0700 0x184f Default 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: validating extension at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.531168-0700 0x1953 Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] canLoadKernelExtension - direct, evaluate, Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:42:44.531854-0700 0x1953 Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Kernel Extension ALLOWED: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
Kext io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse v2085.20 in executable kext bundle io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse at /Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext (new)
/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
/Library/Filesystems/macfuse.fs/Contents/Extensions/12/macfuse.kext
2022-05-16 10:42:44.994916-0700 0x184d Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] canLoadKernelExtension - direct, evaluate, Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:42:44.995262-0700 0x184d Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Kernel Extension ALLOWED: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:42:44.995521-0700 0x184d Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Triggered kext upgrade: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:42:44.995636-0700 0x184d Default 0x0 180 0 syspolicyd: [com.apple.syspolicy.kext:default] Blocking upgrade dialog for kext that is already pending upgrade: Kext (3T5GSNBU6W, io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse) version: 25d8ea0d2b621051e8900f62f6613c904076c8f9
2022-05-16 10:42:44.995862-0700 0x184f Error 0x0 100 0 kernelmanagerd: failed to load/rebuild extensions: Extension with identifiers io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse not approved to load. Please approve using System Preferences.
2022-05-16 10:42:45.006380-0700 0x1961 Error 0x0 644 0 load_macfuse: (KernelManagement) Remote encountered error: Error Domain=KMErrorDomain Code=27 "Extension with identifiers io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse not approved to load. Please approve using System Preferences." UserInfo={NSLocalizedDescription=Extension with identifiers io.macfuse.filesystems.macfuse not approved to load. Please approve using System Preferences.}
2022-05-16 10:42:45.006466-0700 0x1961 Error 0x0 644 0 load_macfuse: (KernelManagement) Extension load failed:
```