Lots of resources and large configmaps cause tilt to hang

Expected Behavior

Tilt should not hang and become unresponsive

Current Behavior

Tilt hangs and becomes unresponsive to any actions. The tiltfile loads, but show status stuck in updating.

Debugging shows the main goroutine being stuck on:

goroutine 1 [sync.RWMutex.Lock]:
sync.runtime_SemacquireRWMutex(0x1401a090d78?, 0x4?, 0x14000c52501?)
        /usr/local/go/src/runtime/sema.go:105 +0x28
sync.(*RWMutex).Lock(0x1401a091468?)
        /usr/local/go/src/sync/rwmutex.go:155 +0xfc
github.com/tilt-dev/tilt/internal/store.(*Store).Loop(0x1400072be60, {0x104ac6380, 0x14000c4fb90})
        /root/project/internal/store/store.go:161 +0x1d8
github.com/tilt-dev/tilt/internal/engine.Upper.Init({0x10466fd40?}, {0x104ac6380, 0x14000c4fb90}, {{0x14000b55b30, 0x42}, {0x106d684e8, 0x0, 0x0}, {{0x103ef7d38, 0x6}, ...}, ...})
        /root/project/internal/engine/upper.go:102 +0x58
github.com/tilt-dev/tilt/internal/engine.Upper.Start({0x2?}, {0x104ac6380, 0x14000c4fb90}, {0x106d684e8, 0x0, 0x0}, {{0x103ef7d38, 0x6}, {0x0, 0x0}, ...}, ...)
        /root/project/internal/engine/upper.go:88 +0x178

and a large percentage of time spent on apicmp.DeepEqual while holding a RLock on the store mtx.

Steps to Reproduce

1. Spin up large tilt environment with 500 resources, using lots of file watches
2. Create large configmaps and load them into tilt
3. trigger a watched file change to retrigger the bug

I have also included a tar.gz file with a setup that seems to reliably reproduce the issue. I used a kind cluster for that setup, as shown in the tilt doctor output below.

Context

tilt doctor Output

$ tilt doctor
Tilt: v0.35.0, built 2025-06-13
System: darwin-arm64
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Docker
- Host: unix:///Users/greg.lightfoot/.docker/run/docker.sock
- Server Version: 28.3.2
- API Version: 1.51
- Builder: 2
- Compose Version: v2.38.2-desktop.1
---
Kubernetes
- Env: kind
- Context: kind-tilt-repro
- Cluster Name: kind-tilt-repro
- Namespace: default
- Container Runtime: containerd
- Version: v1.27.3
- Cluster Local Registry: none
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About Your Use Case

We use tilt extensively for developer environments, and some of those are quite large. We have seen an increasing number of problems with tilt becoming stuck, requiring the developers to have to recreate their environment.

Start by reproducing the hang with the large-resource and large-configmap setup described in the issue, then inspect internal/store/store.go and internal/engine/upper.go around Store.Loop and Upper.Init. Profile the time spent in apicmp.DeepEqual while the store read lock is held. Done means Tilt remains responsive after a watched file change in a similarly large environment.