Ability to query a video and still respect the accessibility tree

Describe the feature you'd like:

It is not possible to query for a video using the *ByRole queries, but these are the only queries which respect the accessibility tree. This means that if you have a video element that is supposed to be hidden, you cannot test it in the same way that you would test other hidden elements. Allowing other queries to opt-in to respecting the accessibility tree was discussed in https://github.com/testing-library/dom-testing-library/issues/929, but this specific case of finding a video was not brought up.

Suggested implementation:

render(<div aria-hidden={true}>
   <video src="abc" aria-label="The Video" />
</div>)

expect(screen.queryByLabelText("The Video", { hidden: false } )).toBe(null)

Describe alternatives you've considered:

The current workaround would have to be something like this, where the developer would need to find the nearest parent that is hidden, which makes the tests too familiar with the layout of the html IMHO

render(<div aria-hidden={true}>
   <video src="abc" aria-label="The Video" />
</div>)

const video = screen.queryByLabelText("The Video")

expect(video.parentElement).toHaveAttribute('aria-hidden', 'true')

Teachability, Documentation, Adoption, Migration Strategy:

This would only require adding the new option hidden to all queries besides *ByRole. The option would default to true.

Start by reviewing the existing *ByRole hidden-option behavior and the queryByLabelText example in this issue, then read the discussion in issue 929. The change is complete when non-role queries can opt into accessibility-tree filtering with a hidden option that defaults to true, and the video example returns null.