Extend `presence` to reach feature parity with `transition-group`

Describe The Problem To Be Solved

presence is super helpful for transitioning between components without unmounting them. However, it is missing some features that are present in transition-group despite being useful in the same scenarios, mainly:

1. Modes: parallel and in-out
2. Callbacks for animation completion (instead of duration-based timeout)
3. List transitions

Suggest A Solution

Update createPresence to match the API of createSwitchTransition. Add an additional hook, createPresenceList that matches the API of createListTransition. I don't anticipate any major difficulty in this because the implementation should mirror that of transition-group but I haven't looked into the source of either library too deeply yet.

I would be open to creating a PR for this as I will be building this functionality anyway as part of a private project.

Start by reading the implementations and APIs of createPresence and createSwitchTransition, then compare them with createListTransition. Define how parallel and in-out modes, animation-completion callbacks, and list transitions should behave before changing the API. Done means createPresence matches createSwitchTransition and the new createPresenceList matches createListTransition.