Global __node argument causes node name collisions

When spawning a process that has multiple internal nodes, the __node:=some_node_name argument applies to all nodes in that process. Take, for instance, the TransformListener, which spawns a node to hold its subscription. If multiple TransformListeners are used, those nodes might have different names by default, but passing the command line __node option causes these to get started with the same name.

This makes things like setting arguments, calling services, and sometimes just setting up publishers/subscribers fail in various ways and has been pervasive in the Navigation2 stack: https://github.com/ros-planning/navigation2/issues/842

A couple possible resolutions:

0. Handle duplicate node names in the same process more gracefully.
1. Only respect the global __node option for the first node created in a process.
2. Make __node only select the prefix to the node name. If multiple nodes are attempted to be created with the same name, append a (sequential?) suffix to uniquify them.
3. Add a parameter to the Node constructor to ignore the global node name override but respect the other global options. (this doesn't fully solve the problem of unique names, since the node is now responsible for making sure they're globally unique and any API that creates nodes must now enforce it).
4. Deprecate the global __node option and respect the node name passed to the Node constructor (Then launch_ros.actions.Node will have to use more targeted remapping to ensure that subnodes are

Discussion of a hacky workaround (pass __node argument to internal nodes to override the top-level __node argument) can be found here https://github.com/ros2/geometry2/pull/159

Review how the global __node argument is applied when multiple nodes are created in one process, using TransformListener as the concrete case described. Compare the four proposed resolutions and determine how duplicate names, remapping, and internal-node behavior should work; done requires an agreed solution that avoids collisions without breaking existing global options.