TextInput `setSelection` "ignored" when TextInput has gone out of focus

Description

When assigning a ref to TextInput there is a setSelection method, which in general works great for changing the selection of the input, without needing to set a selection prop.

However, on android, there is an edge case where when the TextInput has gone out of focus while calling setSelection the new selection is ignored.

See this video, where we have simple code that adds an emoji in the place of the selection:

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/16821682/196180861-27adfd53-41da-4a76-8c5b-f69b0889e43f.mov

Now we changed the code a bit and the TextInput will actually lose focus while we are changing the text. You can see that the selection is wrong. We said the selection to have a range of 0, but it still has the previous range:

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/16821682/196181111-91472e22-f28d-4854-8c31-afe46bde403c.mov

I see how I could fix this by using a selection prop. But this would cause other issues. I could see how I can hack my way around it by further waiting before I call setSelection, however, this can create UI glitches.

I would just assume it to work when I called setSelection.

On iOS something similar can be observed. Here the selection cursor gets set to the end (although onSelectionChange isn't reporting necessarily a change, there is one):

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/16821682/196187268-7d14c6da-8269-4156-b5a1-12473ae9add5.mov

Version

0.70.3

Output of npx react-native info

System:
    OS: macOS 12.6
    CPU: (20) x64 Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-10910 CPU @ 3.60GHz
    Memory: 480.50 MB / 48.00 GB
    Shell: 5.8.1 - /bin/zsh
  Binaries:
    Node: 16.15.1 - ~/.nvm/versions/node/v16.15.1/bin/node
    Yarn: 1.22.19 - ~/.nvm/versions/node/v16.15.1/bin/yarn
    npm: 8.11.0 - ~/.nvm/versions/node/v16.15.1/bin/npm
    Watchman: 2022.09.26.00 - /usr/local/bin/watchman
  Managers:
    CocoaPods: 1.11.3 - /usr/local/bin/pod
  SDKs:
    iOS SDK:
      Platforms: DriverKit 21.4, iOS 16.0, macOS 12.3, tvOS 16.0, watchOS 9.0
    Android SDK:
      API Levels: 26, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32
      Build Tools: 26.0.3, 28.0.3, 29.0.2, 29.0.3, 30.0.2, 30.0.3, 31.0.0, 32.0.0, 33.0.0
      System Images: android-26 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom_64, android-27 | Google Play Intel x86 Atom, android-28 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom, android-30 | ARM 64 v8a, android-30 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom, android-30 | Google Play Intel x86 Atom
      Android NDK: 21.4.7075529
  IDEs:
    Android Studio: Dolphin 2021.3.1 Patch 1 Dolphin 2021.3.1 Patch 1
    Xcode: 14.0.1/14A400 - /usr/bin/xcodebuild
  Languages:
    Java: javac 17 - /usr/bin/javac
  npmPackages:
    @react-native-community/cli: Not Found
    react: 18.1.0 => 18.1.0 
    react-native: 0.70.3 => 0.70.3 
    react-native-macos: Not Found
  npmGlobalPackages:
    *react-native*: Not Found

Steps to reproduce

• Clone the repository
• Run yarn
• Run yarn android
• When the app opens, click inside the TextInput and select any text
• Then click on "Open emoji modal"
• Click on "Add emoji"

Important note: I assume this bug is a race condition as it doesn't happen 100% of the time you try!

Snack, code example, screenshot, or link to a repository

https://github.com/hannojg/TextInputSetSelectionReproduction

Start with the reproduction repository at https://github.com/hannojg/TextInputSetSelectionReproduction. Follow the listed yarn, Android, TextInput, emoji modal, and Add emoji steps, then compare the Android and iOS behavior when focus is lost. Done means setSelection applies the requested range reliably after the text changes, including the reported focus-loss case.