Make cache more agnostic to venvs

I noticed that the mypy cache will mark almost everything as stale if the cache was produced with a venv different from the one running mypy. I think this is due to a full path being placed into cache files & interface_hashes, for files that are stdlib or packages. Then those packages, and everything depending on them, gets invalidated (which ends up being 99% of everything in big projects). I think it would be cool if the cache were more agnostic to this, for two reasons:

1. when testing locally, I occasionally use a second venv with maybe 1 or 2 different packages to test out changes (maybe a package upgraded or added types). Ideally only those packages and their descendants would be invalidated.
2. when trying out remote caches, the CI venv will be "different" (existing at a different path), but the lockfile will be exactly the same. Ideally nothing would be invalidated.

Start by tracing how mypy writes and compares cache files and interface_hashes, especially where full paths from virtual environments are recorded. Reproduce the invalidation with two venv paths and compare the cache behavior. Done means equivalent environments with different paths avoid broad invalidation while changed packages and their descendants still become stale.