[BUG]: When python3.8 starts a c++ dynamic library containing pybind11, the dynamic library will crash. If you use a C++ process to call this dynamic library, it can run normally

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What version (or hash if on master) of pybind11 are you using?

2.11.1

Problem description

When python3.8 starts a c++ dynamic library containing pybind11, the dynamic library will crash. If you use a C++ process to call this dynamic library, it can run normally

Reproducible example code

c++ code       
py::scoped_interpreter python;

        auto scope = py::module_::import("uuid").attr("__dict__");

        pybind11::eval_file("./PythonUnitInterface.py", scope);

Is this a regression? Put the last known working version here if it is.

Not a regression

Start with the provided py::scoped_interpreter and pybind11::eval_file reproduction, then compare loading the dynamic library from Python 3.8 with calling it from a C++ process. Confirm the crash conditions and environment details, and consider the issue complete only when the failure is reproducible and its cause and fix are covered by appropriate project tests.