TiKV is not active, but status is still UP

Bug Report

Please answer these questions before submitting your issue. Thanks!

1. What did you do?

1. Deploy a cluster with TLS enabled;

2. tiup cluster reload the cluster

3. Expect the reload should be successful, but it failed with below msg:
   

4. Seems TiKV is not upgrade successful, the log as below:
   tikv.log

5. tiup cluster display the cluster

6. What did you expect to see?

Expect the TiKV's status is Down or Inactive.

3. What did you see instead?

Currently, we check TiKV's status via PD's store info https://github.com/pingcap/tiup/blob/bc4e43b5b793406fe36e81dc4b1fbec7f895e858/pkg/cluster/spec/tikv.go#L65-L79 and PD's store is actively reported by TiKV, if TiKV is down, the store maybe not GC in time.

BTW, after manually systemctl stop tikv-20160, the display status is correct, seems PD's store was updated:

4. What version of TiUP are you using (tiup --version)?

the master branch

Start with pkg/cluster/spec/tikv.go at the linked status-checking code, then reproduce the sequence with TLS, tiup cluster reload, and tiup cluster display. Use the linked TiKV log and PD store behavior to determine how an inactive TiKV should be represented; done means the display reports Down or Inactive instead of UP.