grpc internal abort in pressure test

Steps that may reproduce the issue

1. Prepare TPCH database, SF=10, tiflash replicas=2
2. Don't analyze any tables before running queries.
3. Parrellely run 20 TPCH queries, each one runs queries sequentially.

"grpc:/home/jenkins/agent/workspace/build-common/go/src/github.com/pingcap/tics/contrib/grpc/src/core/ext/transport/chttp2/transport/chttp2_transport.cc, line number: 687, log msg : server stream 1025 still included in list 1"

for (int i = 0; i < STREAM_LIST_COUNT; i++) {
    if (GPR_UNLIKELY(included[i])) {
      gpr_log(GPR_ERROR, "%s stream %d still included in list %d",
              t->is_client ? "client" : "server", id, i);
      abort();
    }
  }

stack

[2022/05/24 22:16:15.762 +08:00] [ERROR] [BaseDaemon.cpp:570] ["BaseDaemon:
       0x1e88ca1    faultSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) [tiflash+32017569]
                    libs/libdaemon/src/BaseDaemon.cpp:221
  0x7f7547b68630    <unknown symbol> [libpthread.so.0+63024]
  0x7f75475ab387    raise [libc.so.6+222087]
  0x7f75475aca78    abort [libc.so.6+227960]
       0x7fa692d    destroy_stream_locked(void*, grpc_error*) [tiflash+133851437]
                    contrib/grpc/src/core/ext/transport/chttp2/transport/chttp2_transport.cc:726
       0x7e484fa    grpc_combiner_continue_exec_ctx() [tiflash+132416762]
                    contrib/grpc/src/core/lib/iomgr/combiner.cc:236
       0x7e50695    pollset_work(grpc_pollset*, grpc_pollset_worker**, long) [tiflash+132449941]
                    contrib/grpc/src/core/lib/iomgr/ev_epollex_linux.cc:1136
       0x7e83b4d    cq_next(grpc_completion_queue*, gpr_timespec, void*) [tiflash+132660045]
                    contrib/grpc/src/core/lib/surface/completion_queue.cc:1038
       0x1d26bc3    DB::handleRpcs(grpc_impl::ServerCompletionQueue*, Poco::Logger*) [tiflash+30567363]
                    dbms/src/Server/Server.cpp:528
       0x1d74375    auto DB::wrapInvocable<std::__1::function<void ()> >(bool, std::__1::function<void ()>&&)::'lambda'()::operator()() [tiflash+30884725]
                    dbms/src/Common/wrapInvocable.h:36
       0x1d74665    std::__1::packaged_task<void ()>::operator()() [tiflash+30885477]
                    /usr/local/bin/../include/c++/v1/future:2089
       0x1d77d23    DB::DynamicThreadPool::executeTask(std::__1::unique_ptr<DB::IExecutableTask, std::__1::default_delete<DB::IExecutableTask> >&) [tiflash+30899491]
                    dbms/src/Common/DynamicThreadPool.cpp:101
       0x1d77380    DB::DynamicThreadPool::fixedWork(unsigned long) [tiflash+30897024]
                    dbms/src/Common/DynamicThreadPool.cpp:115
       0x1d784eb    void* std::__1::__thread_proxy<std::__1::tuple<std::__1::unique_ptr<std::__1::__thread_struct, std::__1::default_delete<std::__1::__thread_struct> >, std::__1::thread DB::ThreadFactory::newThread<void (DB::DynamicThreadPool::*)(unsigned long), DB::DynamicThreadPool*, unsigned long&>(bool, std::__1::basic_string<char, std::__1::char_traits<char>, std::__1::allocator<char> >, void (DB::DynamicThreadPool::*&&)(unsigned long), DB::DynamicThreadPool*&&, unsigned long&)::'lambda'(auto&&...), DB::DynamicThreadPool*, unsigned long> >(void*) [tiflash+30901483]
                    /usr/local/bin/../include/c++/v1/thread:291
  0x7f7547b60ea5    start_thread [libpthread.so.0+32421]"] [thread_id=755]

Reproduce the failure with the TPCH SF=10 setup, two TiFlash replicas, no table analysis, and 20 parallel sequential-query clients. Start with contrib/grpc/src/core/ext/transport/chttp2/transport.cc around lines 687 and 726, then trace DB::handleRpcs in dbms/src/Server/Server.cpp. Done means the reported internal abort is explained and the same pressure test completes without it.