planner: large estimation error with large IN-list and low NDV

## Bug Report

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### 1. Minimal reproduce step (Required)

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[replayer_vpR7H6n0CV73qSveIRkg2A==_1768830696414020107.zip](https://github.com/user-attachments/files/24759812/replayer_vpR7H6n0CV73qSveIRkg2A._1768830696414020107.zip)

```
id estRows actRows task access object execution info operator info memory disk
Projection_4 35090.14 0 root time:1.75ms, open:124.9µs, close:42.5µs, loops:1, RU:0.48, Concurrency:5 1->Column#5 16.6 KB N/A
└─TableReader_8 35090.14 0 root time:1.66ms, open:123.1µs, close:11.3µs, loops:1, cop_task: {num: 1, max: 1.39ms, proc_keys: 0, tot_proc: 2.54µs, tot_wait: 67.8µs, copr_cache_hit_ratio: 1.00, build_task_duration: 13.2µs, max_distsql_concurrency: 1}, fetch_resp_duration: 1.49ms, rpc_info:{Cop:{num_rpc:1, total_time:1.35ms}} data:Selection_7 245 Bytes N/A
└─Selection_7 35090.14 0 cop[tikv] tikv_task:{time:98ms, loops:111}, scan_detail: {get_snapshot_time: 32.8µs, rocksdb: {block: {}}}, time_detail: {total_process_time: 2.54µs, total_wait_time: 67.8µs, tikv_grpc_process_time: 511.1µs, tikv_grpc_wait_time: 25.6µs, tikv_wall_time: 856.9µs} in(det_test_db.lowcard.lowcard_datetime, 2023-01-01 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-03 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-05 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-07 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-09 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-11 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-13 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-15 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-17 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-19 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-21 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-23 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-25 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-27 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-29 00:00:00.000000, 2023-01-31 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-02 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-04 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-06 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-08 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-10 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-12 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-14 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-16 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-18 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-20 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-22 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-24 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-26 00:00:00.000000, 2023-02-28 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-02 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-04 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-06 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-08 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-10 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-12 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-14 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-16 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-18 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-20 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-22 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-24 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-26 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-28 00:00:00.000000, 2023-03-30 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-01 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-03 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-05 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-07 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-09 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-11 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-13 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-15 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-17 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-19 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-21 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-23 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-25 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-27 00:00:00.000000, 2023-04-29 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"923", "925", "927", "929", "931", "933", "935", "937", "939", "941", "943", "945", "947", "949", "951", "953", "955", "957", "959", "961", "963", "965", "967", "969", "971", "973", "975", "977", "979", "981", "983", "985", "987", "989", "991", "993", "995", "997", "999") N/A N/A
└─TableFullScan_6 108572.00 108572 cop[tikv] table:LowCard tikv_task:{time:79ms, loops:111} keep order:false N/A N/A
```

### 2. What did you expect to see? (Required)

An acceptable estimation error.

### 3. What did you see instead (Required)

Large estimation error: `35090.14 0`

### 4. What is your TiDB version? (Required)

Master