Tables size as on "information_schema.tables" not updated correctly after upgrade to v8.5.1

## Bug Report

Please answer these questions before submitting your issue. Thanks!

### 1. Minimal reproduce step (Required)

1. Upgrade TiDB from v7.5.3 to v8.5.1 in 3 4CPU/16GB RAM AWS EC2 Tidb cluster (Rocky Linux 9.5) (I've around 30 -40GB of data)
2. after upgraded , below table size all show as 0 . It seems to be updated in a very slow progress and forever never being . updated
```
SELECT table_schema "DB Name", SUM(data_length + index_length) `Size (Bytes)`, ROUND(SUM((data_length + index_length) / 1024 / 1024), 2) `Size (MB)` FROM information_schema.tables GROUP BY table_schema ORDER BY SUM(data_length + index_length) DESC;
```

I've manually analyze all tables in that 3 instances ...the size are not the same . Below as ref only
Instance 1
```
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| DB Name | Size (Bytes) | Size (MB) |
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| payment_test | 7478698197 | 7132.24 |
| yuletong_dev | 6861473243 | 6543.61 |

```

Instance 2
```
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| DB Name | Size (Bytes) | Size (MB) |
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
payment_test | 8265354978 | 7882.46 |
yuletong_dev | 0 | 0.00 |
```

### 2. What did you expect to see?
All tables size are correctly shown in 3 TiDB instances.

### 3. What did you see instead (Required)

I've manually analyze all tables in that 3 instances ...the size are not the same . Below as ref only
Instance 1
```
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| DB Name | Size (Bytes) | Size (MB) |
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| payment_test | 7478698197 | 7132.24 |
| yuletong_dev | 6861473243 | 6543.61 |

```

Instance 2
```
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
| DB Name | Size (Bytes) | Size (MB) |
+----------------------------+--------------+-----------+
payment_test | 8265354978 | 7882.46 |
yuletong_dev | 0 | 0.00 |
```

And if I restarted tidb service , the tables size will be reset to 0 and being calculated again .

### 4. What is your TiDB version? (Required)
```
mysql> SELECT tidb_version();
+----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| tidb_version() |
+----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| Release Version: v8.5.1
Edition: Community
Git Commit Hash: fea86c8e35ad4a86a5e1160701f99493c2ee547c
Git Branch: HEAD
UTC Build Time: 2025-01-16 07:38:34
GoVersion: go1.23.4
Race Enabled: false
Check Table Before Drop: false
Store: tikv |
+----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
1 row in set (0.00 sec)

mysql>
```