validate storageVolumes field and fail the tc update if new volumn is added

Feature Request

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe:

1. create a tc without tidb.storageVolumes

    tidb:
      baseImage: pingcap/tidb
      replicas: 1
      service:
        type: ClusterIP
      config: {}
      # storageVolumes:
      # - name: log
      #   storageSize: "2Gi"
      #   mountPath: "/var/log/tidblog"

2. uncomment the storageVolumes part and apply again(try to add storageVolumes)
3. tidb pod is terminated and no new pod created.
   k describe sts output:

Events:
  Type     Reason            Age                  From                    Message
  ----     ------            ----                 ----                    -------
  Normal   SuccessfulDelete  21m (x3 over 6d23h)  statefulset-controller  delete Pod uat-tidb-tidb-0 in StatefulSet uat-tidb-tidb successful
  Warning  FailedCreate      10m (x18 over 21m)   statefulset-controller  create Pod uat-tidb-tidb-0 in StatefulSet uat-tidb-tidb failed error: Pod "uat-tidb-tidb-0" is invalid: spec.containers[1].volumeMounts[4].name: Not found: "tidb-log"
[root@72 PingCAP-master]#

this is caused by StatefulSet.Spec.VolumeClaimTemplates can not be updated

Describe the feature you'd like:

validate the tc and failed to update if new volumn is added

Describe alternatives you've considered:

Teachability, Documentation, Adoption, Migration Strategy:

Start by locating the TiDBCluster validation and StatefulSet update handling for storageVolumes. Reproduce the update described in the issue, then verify that adding a new volume is rejected before the StatefulSet changes and that the user receives a clear validation error.