opmd matplotlib.pylab crash (depending on import order)

**Describe the bug**
Code crashes on import when openpmd is imported before matplotlib

**To Reproduce**
Compile-able/executable code example to reproduce the problem:

```bash
(py-oct25) pgrete@login10 ~ $ python -c "import openpmd_api as opmd; import matplotlib.pylab as plt; print('nope')"
Segmentation fault (core dumped)
(py-oct25) pgrete@login10 ~ $ python -c "import matplotlib.pylab as plt; import openpmd_api as opmd; print('yay')"
yay
(py-oct25) pgrete@login10 ~ $ python -c "import matplotlib as mpl; import openpmd_api as opmd; import matplotlib.pylab as plt; print('yay')"
yay
```

**Expected behavior**
No crash

**Software Environment**
- version of openPMD-api: current dev
- installed openPMD-api via: from source
- machine: Frontier
- name and version of Python implementation: CPython 3.11