outdated CJS-only dependencies

This issue tracks some of the dependencies that are at least 1 major behind but cannot update b/c they don't have CJS builds (which breaks supported CJS CLIs):

The following deps come (mostly?) fromsindresorhus and have switched to ESM-only builds in a major:

• is-wsl using v2, latest is v3
• widest-line using v3, latest is v5
• string-width using v4, latest is v7
• supports-color using v8, latest is 10

As long as we keep supporting CJS we should either replace usage of these deps or wait until node stabilizes requireing ESM from CJS (currently in RC state):
https://nodejs.org/api/modules.html#loading-ecmascript-modules-using-require

One of the requirements for this to work is that the ESM modules should not have TLA, is-wsl doesn't:
https://github.com/sindresorhus/is-wsl/blob/main/index.js

If all of the listed deps don't have TLA in their exports, the feature is GA and supported in our minimum required node version in oclif then we should give it a try and bump everything.

related:
https://github.com/oclif/core/issues/1234

Start by checking the versions of is-wsl, widest-line, string-width, and supports-color, then compare the minimum Node.js version supported by oclif with Node's CJS-to-ESM require support. Review the linked Node.js documentation and related issue. Done means confirming that all listed ESM exports lack top-level await, the feature is supported by the minimum Node version, and the dependencies can be bumped without breaking supported CJS CLIs.