ENH: resize could have `order="A"` kwarg for better F-order support

Describe the issue:

Many functions such as np.ones allow you to specify whether the data is stored by row and then column, or column and then row. Seemingly, the default option is always chosen when there is only one column of data, regardless of what is specified.

Reproduce the code example:

import numpy as np

A = np.ones((4, 2))
A.resize((4, 3))
print(A)

B = np.ones((4, 2), order='F')
B.resize((4, 3))
print(B)

C = np.ones((4, 1))
C.resize((4, 2))
print(C)

#does not behave as expected
D = np.ones((4, 1), order='F')
D.resize((4, 2))
print(D)

Error message:

No response

NumPy/Python version information:

1.23.1 3.10.5 (main, Jun 7 2022, 21:08:59) [GCC 11.3.0]

The issue names no implementation file or test. Start by running the reproducer with NumPy 1.23.1 and inspecting the ndarray.resize API and its handling of Fortran-ordered arrays; done means defining the order="A" behavior and covering the one-column case with regression tests.