Utilize `modifiedSince` parameter for room updates

Currently we only use `modifiedSince` for updates in the background fetch, but never for the actually room update. I assume this was never implemented, as we currently do not handle delete/disinvite signaling messages but instead always do a full fetch. We should consider to also use `modifiedSince` in normal operations and add support for delete/disinvite signaling messages.

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