[all components] Avoid using DOM to derive state

# Bug report

## Current behavior

In some components we depend on the DOM in order to derive some state, which causes the components to need to be rendered multiple times to get to the final state. Some example sinclude:
- https://github.com/mui/base-ui/blob/a4017b603c1709f4593502bc02b06130647f664b/packages/react/src/field/label/FieldLabel.tsx#L29-L36
- https://github.com/mui/base-ui/blob/a4017b603c1709f4593502bc02b06130647f664b/packages/react/src/radio/root/RadioRoot.tsx#L68-L72
- https://github.com/mui/base-ui/blob/a4017b603c1709f4593502bc02b06130647f664b/packages/react/src/tabs/tab/TabsTab.tsx#L101

In general we can search for `useIsoLayoutEffect` calls that update some state inside.

## Expected behavior

It would be great if we can have an alternative API to avoid this.