[tabs] Animations should skip when the delta between updates is greater than the animation duration

# Feature request

## Summary

When we update tabs quickly, we notice that the gray area of the tab does not reflect the currently selected tab

https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/bbec94c3-7aa4-4056-afc8-05a0d3112c9b

## Examples in other libraries

This [x post](https://x.com/raunofreiberg/status/1889700377584431479) suggests skipping the animations when the delta between updates is greater than the animation duration

## Motivation

It's a lovely detail to add to the library