[Bug]: Object Explorer freezes with large number of tables

### Description

Expected the MSSQL extension to load the tables for my database.
But instead it just sat 'Loading' forever
There are a large number of tables (over 116k)

### Steps to Reproduce

1. Connected to database
2. Expanded tables
3. First time got 'error loading'
4. Hit refresh
5. Waited and waited and waited... but never returned just sat 'Loading' for over 15 minutes

### Affected Area

- [ ] Connection dialog (SQL Server | Azure browse/Fabric browse)
- [ ] Query editor
- [ ] Query results panel
- [x] Object Explorer
- [ ] GitHub Copilot integration
- [ ] Preview/Edit data
- [ ] Table Designer
- [ ] Schema Designer
- [ ] Schema Compare
- [ ] Local SQL Server Container provisioning
- [ ] SQL database in Fabric provisioning
- [ ] DACPAC/BACPAC export/import
- [ ] SQL Database projects
- [ ] Query Plan Visualizer
- [ ] Other (please describe below)

### If you selected "Other", please describe the affected area

_No response_

### Environment Information

VS Code version 1.113.0
Extension version 1.41.0

### Confirmation

- [x] I have searched existing issues and couldn't find a match
- [ ] I want to work on this issue