Setting certain controls in VisualState crash the app

### Describe the bug

I am setting `ContentPresenter.Content` to some controls in a `VisualState`. It crashes the app on certain larger / more complex controls, but it's okay for basic `Button`.

It's kind of a weird and corner-case usage I know, but if it's by design it should be documented somewhere.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

1. Use this xaml
```xml


State1
State2

```
2. In code behind, you simply switch states according to the selected `ComboBox` item.
```cpp
void ComboBox_SelectionChanged(winrt::Windows::Foundation::IInspectable const& sender, winrt::Microsoft::UI::Xaml::Controls::SelectionChangedEventArgs const& e)
{
winrt::check_bool(winrt::Microsoft::UI::Xaml::VisualStateManager::GoToState(
*this,
sender.as().SelectedItem().as(),
false
));
}
```
3. Build and run. Switch the state from the comboBox the first time, it works without issue. But switch back to the same state, it crashes.

### Expected behavior

No crash.

### Screenshots

### NuGet package version

WinUI 3 - Windows App SDK 1.6.3: 1.6.241114003

### Windows version

Windows 11 (23H2): Build 22631

### Additional context

This happens to UWP and WinUI3.
[Repro](https://github.com/HO-COOH/WinUI-Bug/tree/main/23-VisualStateControlCrash)

Start with the linked 23-VisualStateControlCrash reproduction and switch repeatedly between the two VisualState values, comparing CalendarView with Button. Trace the VisualStateManager state transition and ContentPresenter content replacement; done means repeated transitions no longer crash for the reported controls, with regression coverage if an appropriate test location is found.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.