More customization for PublishAsKubernetesService()

### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [x] I have searched the existing issues

### Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe the problem.

Currently with `PublishAsKubernetesService` there is no way to define:
- probes (which can be inferred by health check and endpoints)
- resources
- autoscaling
- custom resource data (for example KEDA ScaledObject, etc..)

### Describe the solution you'd like

Now we use a custom CLI which parse the aspire manifest enanched with custom writers and custom annotations like `PublishAs` on `ProjectResource`s but It can be awesome if the `KubernetesResource` allowing set them so we can drop the CLI in the bin.

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