Extend ContainerLifetime enum to destroy the containers on IDE close

### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [x] I have searched the existing issues

### Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe the problem.

The new Aspire 9 feature `ContainerLifetime.Persistant` is pretty cool to improve startup time.

The only issue I have is that the containers are still running after I close the solution in Visual Studio.

### Describe the solution you'd like

Create a third option to destroy the container on IDE close.

```
public enum ContainerLifetime
{
Session,
Persistent,
///
/// Attempt to re-use a previously created resource (based on the container name) if one exists. Destroy the container on IDE close.
///
///
Workspace,
}
```

I know this could be hard to implement because there are different IDEs to support but the process that creates the containers could possibly watch for it's parent process to be terminated to destroy the containers (Even that wouldn't be fail safe because I always can open another solution in VS or open another Directory in vscode.

But it would be a good start and it would be pretty useful to have the possibility as well.

### Additional context

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