Persistent mongodb container recreated on every run

### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [x] I have searched the existing issues

### Describe the bug

Currently, the MongoDB container is being recreated every time it is stopped, even though the same configuration is used each time.

### Expected Behavior

Only one persistent container created for any number of runs with the same configuration.

### Steps To Reproduce

var mongo = builder.AddMongoDB("mongo", 27020)
.WithContainerName("mongo")
.WithEnvironment("MONGO_INITDB_DATABASE", "MyTestDB")
.WithEnvironment("MONGO_INITDB_ROOT_USERNAME", "user")
.WithEnvironment("MONGO_INITDB_ROOT_PASSWORD", "pass")
.WithDataVolume("mtmongodata")
.WithBindMount("./init-mongo.js", "/docker-entrypoint-initdb.d/mongo-init.js", isReadOnly: true)
.WithLifetime(ContainerLifetime.Persistent);

1. Run the aspire project with this configuration
2. After the projected started successfully, run `docker stop `
3. Run again the aspire project with the same configuration.

### Exceptions (if any)

_No response_

### .NET Version info

.NET SDK:
Version: 9.0.304
Commit: f12f5f689e
Workload version: 9.0.300-manifests.610a1858
MSBuild version: 17.14.16+5d8159c5f

Runtime Environment:
OS Name: Windows
OS Version: 10.0.26100
OS Platform: Windows
RID: win-x64
Base Path: C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk\9.0.304\

### Anything else?

Project target framework: NET 9.0
Aspire.Hosting.AppHost version: 9.3.1
Aspire.Hosting.MongoDB version: 9.3.1

Start by tracing the container handling behind WithLifetime(ContainerLifetime.Persistent) and the provided MongoDB configuration, then reproduce the stop-and-rerun sequence. Done means rerunning the same Aspire project reuses the existing stopped container instead of creating another one.

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