Make linked filter cache expiration configurable

**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**
We have many use cases where linked filters cache (30 days!) can be problematic: people that change data often might find that the linked filters don't have the latest values ([https://github.com/metabase/metabase/issues/49055]()) and they end up calling support as values are not up to date.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
Make the expiration configurable, up to the level that could be disabled

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
Call the api every certain amount of days/minutes/hours to clean up the filter cache

**How important is this feature to you?**
We've... kind of had tons of tickets around linked filters cache

**Additional context**
NA

Start by tracing the linked-filter cache and its current 30-day expiration, then inspect existing configuration and API conventions. Done means expiration can be configured, including being disabled, and linked-filter values follow that setting; add or update coverage for the supported options.

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