[Feature Request]: Enhanced AUTO_INCREMENT Support

## Is there an existing issue for the same feature request?

- [x] I have checked the existing issues.

## Is your feature request related to a problem?

Yes, currently MatrixOne has limitations with AUTO_INCREMENT:

1. **Cannot modify AUTO_INCREMENT starting value after table creation**
2. **Limited control over cache behavior**
3. **Duplicate key errors with manual inserts**

## Describe the feature you'd like

### 1. ALTER TABLE AUTO_INCREMENT Support
```sql
ALTER TABLE table_name AUTO_INCREMENT = 1000;
```

### 2. AUTO_ID_CACHE Table Option
```sql
CREATE TABLE t (id INT AUTO_INCREMENT PRIMARY KEY) AUTO_ID_CACHE = 100;
```

### 3. Session Variables
```sql
SET @@auto_increment_increment = 2;
SET @@auto_increment_offset = 1;
```

## Implementation Considered

1. Distributed Counter Management
2. Metadata Storage
3. Session Variable Support
4. Backward Compatibility

## Use Cases

- Data Migration
- System ID Reservation
- Performance Tuning

## Additional information

**References**: https://docs.pingcap.com/tidb/stable/auto-increment
**Priority**: High