Update message tiles to have the proper level of interaction/options

Update message tiles to have the proper level of interaction/options

In Hydrogen, `interactive: false` is currently used for a slim reply so it doesn’t render the reaction list and message actions

For the archives, we need a slightly different use case of showing reactions and message actions `...` menu, but not the add emoji or message actions like remove, etc. We probably just need the `Copy permalink` and `View source` type options.

## Todo

- [ ] Make an enum as the comment above is targeting, `[interactive, reference]`
- `interactive` allows actions that send events (like reactions, redactions)
- `reference` slims the item down to be used as a reply

## Relevant code

- [`src/platform/web/ui/session/room/timeline/BaseMessageView.js#L32`](https://github.com/vector-im/hydrogen-web/blob/d91aaabeb392b0b973525654ba98bc8b83063493/src/platform/web/ui/session/room/timeline/BaseMessageView.js#L32)

Start with the interaction handling referenced at src/platform/web/ui/session/room/timeline/BaseMessageView.js#L32 and inspect how message tiles are used in Hydrogen. Define the requested interaction/reference modes so archive tiles retain reactions, Copy permalink, and View source while omitting add-emoji and destructive actions. Done means the archive and slim-reply behaviors match those distinctions.

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