Flowplayer: autoPlay: false,autoBuffering: true should not display the video if a splash image is set

Flowplayer has a special incantation to pause on the first frame after loading:

``` js
clip: {
autoPlay: false,
autoBuffering: true
}
```

With flashls the player gets stuck in loading state, see http://flowplayer.blacktrash.org/test/flashls.html
Can this be solved in flashls?

Start by reproducing the Flowplayer configuration on the linked flashls test page, using autoPlay false, autoBuffering true, and a splash image. Trace the loading path responsible for the stuck state; done means the player loads without displaying the video when the splash image is set.

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