tsm as shebang should allow scripts to respond to --help and --version

for example given this `my-cli.ts` script

```
#!/usr/bin/env tsm

if (process.argv.includes('-h') || process.argv.includes('--help')) {
console.log('my-cli help')
process.exit(0)
}

if (process.argv.includes('-v') || process.argv.includes('--version')) {
console.log(`my-cli version'`)
process.exit(0)
}
```

when i run `./my-cli.ts -h` or `./my-cli.ts -v`, i would expect it to output the help / version of my-cli

however currently the help / version of tsm gets printed instead

in contrast, it behaves as expected when using node in shebang. if changing it to `my-cli.js`

```
#!/usr/bin/env node

if (process.argv.includes('-h') || process.argv.includes('--help')) {
console.log('my-cli help')
process.exit(0)
}

if (process.argv.includes('-v') || process.argv.includes('--version')) {
console.log(`my-cli version'`)
process.exit(0)
}
```

and run `./my-cli.js -h` or `./my-cli.js -v`, it correctly output the help / version of my-cli

Reproduce the behavior with the mentioned my-cli.ts shebang and the ./my-cli.ts -h and ./my-cli.ts -v commands, then compare it with the my-cli.js and node shebang example. Trace how tsm handles shebang arguments; done means the script receives -h and -v so it prints its own help and version output.

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